We message each other, we talk sometimes, but we don't push it. We make each other feel special and good about ourselves. We're very similar, he's also calm, introverted, but very caring. I've met this guy on a long weekend with friends about a year ago and we 'zinged'. Aggressive as in pushing his opinion into my face, not letting me talk, not listening to my point and not taking them into account.then, a few hours later, when he calms down, he acts like nothing's happened.Other time we're okay, he acts like he still loves me and wants me, he makes plans with me, yet we don't do 'romantic stuff' and don't talk about our thoughts and feelings much.Īnd, now that you have an idea of my ongoing relationship. We argue a lot and while I'm overly patient and careful with what I say, my boyfriend get very aggressive and overwhelming. I'm not saying that one approach is better or worse, that the other, I'm just saying, that we're different and we want different things. but he's very practical, down to earth and career and money are important to him, while I'm a typical dreamer: I couldn't care less about career and money, I want to do what makes me happy - in my free time as well as professionally - and I don't want to be faced with financial and bureaucratic issues very single day. Our relationship, on the other hand, started going downhill We have common interests - except that he's social and likes to go out, while I am and do not. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 years - we met abroad, then, after year or so, we moved back to my country and he found a job and some friends here.
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